How do we know when someone doesn’t like us? How do we know when someone does? Ever have a friend who all of the sudden drops out of your life? Ever drop someone who was a friend out of yours? People who approve of you will do so no matter what. People who disapprove of you will do so no matter what. When someone dislikes us we have a tendency to blame ourselves. Do we really need to do that to ourselves? When someone dislikes us we can easily blame them. Do we really need to do that? What if there was no blame? Try it and see what that feels like.